Why Tee Box Etiquette Still Matters in Today’s More Casual Golf Game

As golf becomes a more relaxed and accessible sport, I’ve noticed that some of the traditional etiquettes that once helped maintain respect and order on the course are beginning to fade. While I’m all for a more casual approach to the game—after all, the less pressure, the more enjoyable it can be—there’s one thing I believe should never be sacrificed: respect for the course and your fellow golfers.

Let’s be honest—how many times have you had that one friend who shows up late for their tee time, causing the whole group to delay the start while they scramble to get ready? We’ve all been there. Life happens, and I understand that sometimes things don’t go as planned. But when it becomes a routine occurrence, it starts to get frustrating. A little bit of planning and a bit of respect for your scheduled tee time can go a long way. Not only does it show respect for the course itself, but it also shows respect for the other players’ time.

Note that this whole conversation stems from my video on the Golfspan YouTube channel. It’s a very quick breakdown of these points.

Golf courses operate like a well-oiled machine. Tee times are set at specific intervals—whether it’s 10:07 or 9:16—so that the entire day runs smoothly. When someone is late, it doesn’t just affect their group; it creates a ripple effect, potentially delaying the groups behind. And that can quickly throw off the entire schedule for the day. It may seem small, but keeping that tee time can make a significant difference in ensuring the day runs on time for everyone.

Another piece of tee box golf etiquette that seems to be slipping is the simple tradition of introducing yourself and shaking hands before the round. Sure, when you’re out there with your regular golf buddies, introductions aren’t necessary. But when you step onto the tee box with strangers or even casual acquaintances, it’s good practice to introduce yourself, identify your ball, and wish each other luck.

This goes beyond just the act of good sportsmanship—it helps maintain the flow of the game and avoids confusion later on. Identifying your ball isn’t just a formality; it ensures that everyone is clear about whose ball is whose, reducing the chance for misunderstandings or even foul play.

It’s like how a blackjack dealer announces the cards—it’s about transparency and ensuring fairness for all involved.

And then, there’s the issue of rushing the tee box. I get it—sometimes we just want to get on with it, especially when we’re excited to play. But when a group is already out there on the fairway and another group is waiting to tee off, it’s important to give them space. I’ve seen people crowd the tee box, eager to hit their shot, but that only adds pressure on the group ahead. It’s a small thing, but staying at least 30 yards back and waiting your turn is a simple way to respect their space. Let them finish in peace, and in turn, you’ll be afforded the same courtesy.

In my opinion, golf is a game built on respect—not just for the course, but for the other players. It’s about following a set of unspoken rules that allow everyone to enjoy the game, whether they’re a beginner or a seasoned pro. As the game becomes more casual, it’s essential that we don’t lose sight of these small, yet meaningful, traditions. By showing up on time, making a simple introduction, and respecting the players ahead of us, we maintain the spirit of the game. These gestures may seem minor, but they’re what help make golf such a unique and enjoyable experience.

At the end of the day, golf is about more than just hitting a ball around a course. It’s about community, tradition, and respect. It’s about creating an atmosphere where every player—whether a long-time friend or someone you’ve just met—can enjoy the game without unnecessary stress or confusion. Let’s make sure that, as golf becomes more casual, we continue to honor the values that have made the game so special for generations.

These simple etiquette practices ensure that golf remains a game of respect, honor, and enjoyment for all. So let’s not forget to hold onto these traditions—after all, they’re what keep the game truly great.

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Clint is PGA-certified and was a Head Teaching Professional at one of Toronto's busiest golf academies. He was also featured on Canada's National Golf TV program, "Score Golf Canada," twice. He graduated with a degree in Golf Management from the College of the Desert in California and studied under Callaway's co-founder, Tony Manzoni. He has a handicap index of 6.2 and spends the winters near Oaxaca, Mexico, where he plays twice a month at the Club de Golf Vista Hermosa. He's written over 100 articles at GolfSpan since 2021. You can connect with Clint at LinkedIn, FB, his website, or Clintcpga@gmail.com.

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